Question about cremation problem..Dont yell at me for asking this in M&D but this is the only place I come....?

It isn't your fault that you did not understand about how urns are sealed by funeral homes. How are you supposed to know something like that? I think you should have the dog cremated, put his ashes in an urn, and place them alongside your wife's. The ashes will be together. You did the best you could, and your wife would understand.